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Crafting Unforgettable Wedding Ceremonies

Your wedding day is one of the most meaningful moments of your life, and it deserves to be celebrated with a ceremony that truly reflects your love story. As an experienced wedding officiant, my passion is helping couples create a personalized, heartfelt ceremony that honors their journey together.

Whether you envision a traditional, spiritual, or modern celebration, I work closely with you to design a ceremony that captures the essence of your relationship. From intimate elopements to large celebrations, my goal is to make your day as special and unique as your bond.

With years of experience officiating weddings for couples of all backgrounds, I bring a calm, warm, and professional presence to every ceremony. I’m here to ensure that the process is smooth and stress-free, so you can focus on what truly matters—celebrating your love with family and friends.

Together, we’ll create a ceremony that feels meaningful, authentic, and unforgettable. I would be honored to be part of your special day and help you celebrate this beautiful milestone in your life.

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Why Choose Me?

I am dedicated to creating a personalized, heartfelt, and unforgettable wedding experience. Our mission is to honor your love story by crafting a ceremony that reflects your unique journey, values, and traditions. With professionalism, warmth, and a genuine passion for love, we aim to ensure that your special day is a true celebration of your bond, filled with meaning, joy, and cherished memories for you and your guests.

I offer a variety of services to help you on your special day.  Choose one, all, or as many services as you would like.  

  • 1. Pre-Wedding Consultations

    • Meeting with the couple to understand their vision, preferences, and personal story.
    • Discussing ceremony structure, themes, readings, and vows.
    • Offering guidance on writing personalized vows or script creation.

    2. Custom Ceremony Script Writing

    • Crafting a unique, customized ceremony script that reflects the couple’s love story, values, and beliefs.
    • Incorporating personal elements such as cultural traditions, religious customs, or symbolic rituals (e.g., unity candle, handfasting, sand ceremonies).

    3. Vow Writing Assistance

    • Helping couples write meaningful, heartfelt vows.
    • Offering sample vows or templates to inspire creativity.

    4. Premarital Counseling

    • Providing counseling sessions focused on communication, conflict resolution, and relationship building.
    • Helping couples prepare for married life through structured discussions or exercises.

    5. Rehearsal Coordination

    • Leading or attending the wedding rehearsal to ensure everyone knows their roles and the flow of the ceremony.
    • Helping with timing, positioning, and logistics so the actual day runs smoothly.
    • Offering guidance and advice on structuring the ceremony, choosing readings, or selecting the order of service.

    6. Marriage License Assistance

    • Guiding the couple through the process of obtaining the marriage license.
    • Completing and submitting the legal paperwork to ensure the marriage is official.

    7. Destination or Elopement Ceremonies

    • Traveling to different locations for destination weddings or small, intimate elopements.
    • Offering special packages for couples seeking non-traditional or private ceremonies.

    8. Renewal of Vows

    • Officiating vow renewal ceremonies for couples celebrating a milestone anniversary or wishing to reaffirm their commitment.

    9. Commitment Ceremonies

    • Performing non-legally binding ceremonies for couples who wish to celebrate their love and commitment without formal marriage.

    10. Ceremonies for Diverse Couples

    • Offering interfaith or non-denominational ceremonies that respect the beliefs and traditions of both partners.

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How It Works

  1. Schedule an Appointment: Use our online booking system Click Here

    Call 910.390.2765 to set up a convenient time for your notarization. 

    Email weddings@joylough.com

    or

    You can also complete this FORM and I will contact you.

  2. Prepare For Your Special Day: Choose one of the options to the left

  3. Meet with Me: I will come to you for our appointment

  4. Celebrate Your Special Day!

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Dr. Joy Lough

Speaker/ Minister

I am a licensed minister and am available to speak to your congregation or group.

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